dream and paths

And the adventure continues;


Based on the behaviour of some people, it seems there's invisible path what everyone should follow during the lifetime. This path is dependant of cognitive behaviour of the surroundings you live in, the wealth of family etc. The most common might be like: be kid - go school - go high school - go uni - get degree - marry someone - fill the earth with children - raise the kids -became elder - pay finally your bills and be free to do what you want to.
Now, if someone is not following this path, there are some questions arisen; if the person is different, maybe not liking the opposite sex (although nowadays that might be different as well. just to clarify; this does not picture me. I like opposite.). Why cannot people be let to live their own path, without others wondering why the hell the person is not following the path or setting expectations what should be there. e.g am I expected to get married? or have kids? and if not what that set my status? or are the both traditional behaviour of the human being set into our genome kind of setting a "thing" behind you which is still there even though you might have already gone away from this world.
Don't get me wrong, i have already my own path, which is ok. Although i am missing some common things from it, that might or might not be expected by the "normal" people. The common expectations by the community and such - a good reading is a story about Richard Feynman and the court issue where the issue goes around "majority of the people" and determining the percentage of which constitutes a majority etc.